I watched an interesting television show on high class prostitution recently. I'm fascinated by it honestly. The women involved are attractive, often better than average, intelligent and well read. They aren't your garden variety prossies. Some use the monies to put themselves through graduate school. Others like the lifestyle they are afforded because of the money they can make. Some women make $10,000 for an overnight stay.The show interviewed men who use the services, no faces of course. They were men of means, some married, some not. They liked using the same girl which is interesting because I thought men would like more variety. I'm sure part of it can be attributed to trust. They need to know the woman is not going to spill their lives to those who could potentially ruin them. What I really think though is the men desire intimacy and having several partners takes it away.
Fascinating to me is the service most often requested. The Girlfriend Experience. Rather than book the porn star type gymnast for bedroom antics, they choose a woman who'll make them feel special. Sure sex occurs, and I'm sure it's hot sex, but they want a woman who makes him feel like she's glad he's there. "Let me take your coat honey." A gentle kiss on the neck and a shoulder rub. "How was your day dear?".
I believe humans crave intimacy. I don't believe sex for the sake of sex is what any of us want. I believe it feels good at the time, but it's a fleeting pleasure. Real pleasure comes from feeling wanted and needed. Prostitutes taught me that.
