So I've been looking for my first controversial subject since beginning writing on this site. I finally believe I've found it. Elle took the time to detail what subjects are present on santhes.com and although this article could be filed under several of the mentioned categories I believe it deserves it's own recognition. That category is blatant controversy. Having said that I'll get on with it.
So ladies...this may be a shocker and I can't truly speak for the male race...but we fake it too. Oh perhaps it's more "difficult" to fake, but let's be honest here, are you inspecting the results after some hot sweaty sex? More than likely your answer is no. This I believe is an important story reflecting back to even Abz's previous article regarding B.J.'s.
So let me explain further. Girls...this is going to feel eerily familiar but bear with me. So you're having a great time, and you get in the mood. As a guy you've got a lot more responsibility here to perform. I don't need to elaborate on this, we all understand. Most girls aren't looking for the minute man, and I've never been that guy. Sometimes though despite the common misconceptions guys can have a thoroughly entertaining evening without the climax. I'm not just making this up, I've brought this up with several guys, friends, and not. Once they're honest enough, they'll open up about these rarely spoke of situations. Back on the issue of performing is the end of the ordeal which is generally with capitano "alpha male" hitting his stride and finishing up the bronco/raging bull (ride the girl, then right at the best part yell the name of another woman...then you're riding and holding on for dear life while the bucking begins!!). All kidding aside I'll continue...
The guy finishes and it's time to catch a breather. There have been several articles pointing to guys not giving a shit about the girl he's with and yes this CAN be the case! A guy will look at a girl simply as a piece of meat and use her for all she's worth. However, this is reciprocal, girls do the same. Back to the original point, guys despite using their guests take pride in being able to please their mate. Not climaxing is a downer to the other person involved, but due to the nature of the male climax, it is that much more of a defining moment. So in the end ladies, don't always take the guy's word for it...Josh Hartnett may just be throwing that empty condom across the room and sticking it to the nearest windown in an extremely embarrassing fashion.
Since it's more interesting from previous experience to throw some specific questions out there I'll do just that:
- have you been suspicious but never sure you mate has "faked it"?
- how important is it to you that your partner climaxes?
I could ask more, but that's it for now, I purposely left the questions to be androgynous.
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